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2018 Allemagne

After the abortion I was just relived and I felt empowered - it was about my life. Before the abortion I was very afraid, I felt irresponsible, a little stuipid and trapped. The latter was the worst.

The abortion itself was physically very painful for me, but that didn't matter at all (giving birth is probably worse). However, the entire process with obligatory consulation was awful. Although in Germany the law requires, that the obligatory consulation has to be objective, my consultant was a strict Christian who tried to convince me and my partner to have a baby. She was manipulative and had a very strange image of women in general. Although the clinic staff was not as extreme as her, they were very disrespectful. The entire process was really bad for me and I cried a lot - not because of the abortion, but because of the people and how they dealt with me.

I generally do not plan to have kids, being a mother is not for me

Comment les autres personnes ont-elles réagi à votre avortement ?

I didn't tell my family, since they are very conservative. However, all my friends at least accepted it, although some of them were a little shocked. I was very open about it, because even in Germany I feel that there is a huge stigma about it. Although I am a defender of radical reproductive justice, I felt affected by that stigma, so I told my friends only AFTER the abortion.

Anne

Que alivio!

Anne

I knew exactly what I wanted and needed- to be there for my kids, to find a job

Fernanda

Yo aborté y soy una chica libre

Livia

I had an abortion in which the place where i live illegalized the procedure. As…

Ale

Muy difícil decisión

Liz Price

I had an abortion

Sierra

I had to get an abortion after my Skyla IUD was placed improperly or slipped. I…

Paulina

To była historia inna niż wszystkie. Mam wspaniałą rodzine. Męża i niespełna 2…

KEP

I was 44 years old and already had 2 children. The pregnancy was an accident…

Maja

Usunęłam ciąże i na razie nie żałuję.

Adhi

Saya masih duduk di kelas 3 SMA saat melakukan aborsi. Saya sudah pacaran…

Dita

I choose abortion hard at the beginning but I know this is the right choice

Sarah Brown Sara

A pesar de que tengo la edad suficiente y una pareja estable y en planes de…

Yukino

Yo aborte

Esperanza

El adiós más difícil.