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Made me who I am today

2006 États-Unis

I have many conflicting feelings. In many ways, by getting pregnant, I realized how much I want children, a family, as one of my lifelong goals. I knew I could not provide the type of home I want to raise a family in during that at that time in my life. In many ways my inner dissidence about my decision over the last 10 years has caused me emotional strife and turmoil. Sometimes questioning, what if? I don't expect that to ever change, as I feel I can not openly mourn the loss of the little one that I know I someday want. But with time I realized...why put a question mark where god put a period?

I had a surgical abortion and something went wrong with the first attempt, so I had to come back one week later to have the procedure repeated. The doctor told me it was because I had a "heart shaped uterus." The week in between was filled with anxiety, guilt, and fear that I would never be able to bear children in the future. Once it was all done, I was absolutely relieved. I learned actually how strong I could be, and about how I do desire children, when I am ready for them.

I had just turned 18 and graduated from high school. I had plans of attending University in the fall, and saw my dreams crashing down with this unplanned pregnancy. I could not bear the idea of having a child without having enough money in my bank account to pay rent, and without the education to get a well paying job. I want a child when I am able to provide a life with opportunity, with stability and love. At that time in my life I was just learning what being an adult was about.

Comment les autres personnes ont-elles réagi à votre avortement ?

I kept my abortion secret from my family and most of my friends for years. Two of my girlfriends who knew took accompanied me to Planned Parenthood. One said, "this is what you need to do for yourself."

Bárbara

Fiz o procedimento ontem e quero contar com riqueza de detalhes , por isso…

Bryann Turner

It was the right decision for me at this time.

Manuella Silva

Grávida aos 18.


Olá. Vim contar pra voces minha experiencia com aborto.
Eu ficava…

Aysella

Abortions are not fun !

Laura

Fue una difícil decisión a pesar que no es mi primer aborto. Sé que tengo un…

Suzanne

I had an abortion

Jess

This is something that was necessary for me but most definitely the hardest and…

Masha

This isn't my first abortion.... :'( My second one I am currently scheduled for.

Amy Martinez

I had an abortion

Leah Jeck

Aku pertama kali kenal sex, tahun 2013 semester 2 tahun awal kuliah, dengan…

Madison

Una lucha constante.

Maria Victoria

A gravidez é também a morte da pessoa que você foi até aquele momento, para…

Montse

"Un acto amoroso"

Jordan

The reviews were scary and I was afraid of what would happen when I took the…

Aby

I felt it was accapted to have an abortion

Vivian

I had an abortion 6 months ago.My boyfriend and I were not ready to have a baby.

Uma Mulher

Pra mim, fazer um aborto foi um ato de responsabilidade

helenka

Mój chłopak mieszka w innym kraju. Na miesiąc przed wyjazdem do niego zaczęłam…

Jude

....because my pregnancy was unexpected and I did not want another child. My…