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Made me who I am today

2006 États-Unis

I have many conflicting feelings. In many ways, by getting pregnant, I realized how much I want children, a family, as one of my lifelong goals. I knew I could not provide the type of home I want to raise a family in during that at that time in my life. In many ways my inner dissidence about my decision over the last 10 years has caused me emotional strife and turmoil. Sometimes questioning, what if? I don't expect that to ever change, as I feel I can not openly mourn the loss of the little one that I know I someday want. But with time I realized...why put a question mark where god put a period?

I had a surgical abortion and something went wrong with the first attempt, so I had to come back one week later to have the procedure repeated. The doctor told me it was because I had a "heart shaped uterus." The week in between was filled with anxiety, guilt, and fear that I would never be able to bear children in the future. Once it was all done, I was absolutely relieved. I learned actually how strong I could be, and about how I do desire children, when I am ready for them.

I had just turned 18 and graduated from high school. I had plans of attending University in the fall, and saw my dreams crashing down with this unplanned pregnancy. I could not bear the idea of having a child without having enough money in my bank account to pay rent, and without the education to get a well paying job. I want a child when I am able to provide a life with opportunity, with stability and love. At that time in my life I was just learning what being an adult was about.

Comment les autres personnes ont-elles réagi à votre avortement ?

I kept my abortion secret from my family and most of my friends for years. Two of my girlfriends who knew took accompanied me to Planned Parenthood. One said, "this is what you need to do for yourself."

Nami Tibbers

Não vi outra opção. Então tomei coragem e optei por um aborto.

Maru

Se puede acceder de forma legal

Claudiagyn

Aconteceu comigo.

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Eveline BANGOURA

Bonjour je partage avec vous mon expérience aujourd'hui jeune fille de 18ans…

elena

interrumpi un embarazo de 6 semanas

Veronica

Yo aborté a las 5 semanas. Yo decidí.

Młoda Dama

Postanowiłam opisać swój przypadek ponieważ sama podczas dokonywania aborcji…

Irina

Cuando miro para atrás, más se afirma la certeza de que hice lo correcto.

Dana Bronte

Muerte de un ángel.

Julieta Iovaldi Curutchet

Decidí desde el principio no compartir esa experiencia con la pareja de ese…

M C

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Jude

....because my pregnancy was unexpected and I did not want another child. My…

Deborah

I had an abortion I’m not mad about all the soul-baring on the internet, but I…

Gaby

Força, tudo que precisa!

keira

Chcę mieć kontrolę. Zrobiłam to i NIE ŻAŁUJĘ.

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chiquiss67

Hola.

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britta

Something that has carried with me ever since.