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Made me who I am today

2006 États-Unis

I have many conflicting feelings. In many ways, by getting pregnant, I realized how much I want children, a family, as one of my lifelong goals. I knew I could not provide the type of home I want to raise a family in during that at that time in my life. In many ways my inner dissidence about my decision over the last 10 years has caused me emotional strife and turmoil. Sometimes questioning, what if? I don't expect that to ever change, as I feel I can not openly mourn the loss of the little one that I know I someday want. But with time I realized...why put a question mark where god put a period?

I had a surgical abortion and something went wrong with the first attempt, so I had to come back one week later to have the procedure repeated. The doctor told me it was because I had a "heart shaped uterus." The week in between was filled with anxiety, guilt, and fear that I would never be able to bear children in the future. Once it was all done, I was absolutely relieved. I learned actually how strong I could be, and about how I do desire children, when I am ready for them.

I had just turned 18 and graduated from high school. I had plans of attending University in the fall, and saw my dreams crashing down with this unplanned pregnancy. I could not bear the idea of having a child without having enough money in my bank account to pay rent, and without the education to get a well paying job. I want a child when I am able to provide a life with opportunity, with stability and love. At that time in my life I was just learning what being an adult was about.

Comment les autres personnes ont-elles réagi à votre avortement ?

I kept my abortion secret from my family and most of my friends for years. Two of my girlfriends who knew took accompanied me to Planned Parenthood. One said, "this is what you need to do for yourself."

Lucie

I had more than one abortions. I made the choices because I care about the…

A.

Pomimo zastosowanej antykoncepcji, zaszłam w ciążę. Brałam tabletki.

Susie

I'M NOT SORRY.

Julia

Razem z moich chłopakiem znamy się niecały rok , jest ode mnie młodszy o 4 lata…

Alexa

Ojala alguna vez me perdones... pero fue. La mejor decisión..

maria maria

No tome la mejor desición, hice lo que pude

Deborah

I had an abortion I’m not mad about all the soul-baring on the internet, but I…

Sylwia Zatońska

Ciąża nie powinna być przypadkiem!!!

Liz

Eu tinha 22 anos, minha menstruação atrasou e meus seios estavam muito inchados.

Jos

Era lo mejor

Laura

Fue una difícil decisión a pesar que no es mi primer aborto. Sé que tengo un…

Kristina Brandon

‪#‎StandWithPP‬ I never wanted kids. I got pregnant in college when I was 17.

A alexandra

Mi futuro, mi familia

dessa

fiz um aborto sozinha

Alma en busca de libertad

MI DECISIÓN, MI CUERPO, JUSTICIA PARA LAS MUJERES.

María

Aborté y no me arrepiento. I do not regret my abortion.

Lindsay Millett

I had an abortion

Louise Harper

I have had two abortions. One at the age of 22 which I paid privately for at 9…