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Made me who I am today

2006 États-Unis

I have many conflicting feelings. In many ways, by getting pregnant, I realized how much I want children, a family, as one of my lifelong goals. I knew I could not provide the type of home I want to raise a family in during that at that time in my life. In many ways my inner dissidence about my decision over the last 10 years has caused me emotional strife and turmoil. Sometimes questioning, what if? I don't expect that to ever change, as I feel I can not openly mourn the loss of the little one that I know I someday want. But with time I realized...why put a question mark where god put a period?

I had a surgical abortion and something went wrong with the first attempt, so I had to come back one week later to have the procedure repeated. The doctor told me it was because I had a "heart shaped uterus." The week in between was filled with anxiety, guilt, and fear that I would never be able to bear children in the future. Once it was all done, I was absolutely relieved. I learned actually how strong I could be, and about how I do desire children, when I am ready for them.

I had just turned 18 and graduated from high school. I had plans of attending University in the fall, and saw my dreams crashing down with this unplanned pregnancy. I could not bear the idea of having a child without having enough money in my bank account to pay rent, and without the education to get a well paying job. I want a child when I am able to provide a life with opportunity, with stability and love. At that time in my life I was just learning what being an adult was about.

Comment les autres personnes ont-elles réagi à votre avortement ?

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Dani

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Megan W.

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Julia

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baby t

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Stormy-Hayden Skylar

I don't regret my abortion in the slightest.

Sylwia Zatońska

Ciąża nie powinna być przypadkiem!!!

Tina

I had an abortion when I was 15 years old. After my abortion, I went to college

Ronnie

because the time just wasn't right for me.

julie

My life became changed

Constanza Arely

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dessa

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