Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

آیا غیرقانونی بودن سقط جنین بر احساسات شما تأثیر گذاشته است؟

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

واکنش دیگران نسبت به سقط جنین شما چیست؟

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Sarah

I feel much relieved thanks to women on web because living in a country where…

Teaser

Nunca hubiera querido estar en esa encrucijada

carmilla

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Carolina

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Sylvie Shene

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Emmy Smith

It was the best decision of my life

Brenda

Having an abortion was the right thing for my family.

Lindsay Millett

I had an abortion

Bobbie

The first time I was too young the next I was old enough to know I had no right…

Margarita

Dicen que interrumpí una vida, yo siento que lo que hice fue continuar con la…

Emily

It isn't and shouldn't be as taboo as it is made out to be.

Daniela

Y lo volvería a hacer, habia terminado con mi ex pololoy el era super…

AM

I had a surgical, had two kids, and then had medical abortion.

fiore fiol

Yo me practique un aborto con citotec porque acababab de tener una bebe y…

kate swanson

I didn't intend it to, but safe, legal abortion played a huge part in my family…

Freedom77

I was lucky enough to be able to have an NHS surgical termination at 8 weeks.

A.

Pomimo zastosowanej antykoncepcji, zaszłam w ciążę. Brałam tabletki.

paola paola

Yo aborté