Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

آیا غیرقانونی بودن سقط جنین بر احساسات شما تأثیر گذاشته است؟

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

واکنش دیگران نسبت به سقط جنین شما چیست؟

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Virginie

À 32 ans, j'ai avorté parce que ce n'était pas le bon moment.

Marcela

Es más una historia de amor, que de un aborto pero posiblemente en algo te…

Maria

Ser mamá por elección, no a la fuerza.

Ianne

A cry of freedom for all women who are dictated by the mentality of the norms…

Beth

No estaba 10% segura pero lo hice,
Yo aborte.

Maria Lopez

pensando en que dirán

Laura Helena

Olá meninas , me chamo Laura , tenho 21 anos ,uma filha linda de 2 aninhos e…

Jess

This is something that was necessary for me but most definitely the hardest and…

Maggie

Desculpa não te ter dado uma chance de sobreviveres, mas fiquei demasiado…

Angel M

To była 3 ciąża nieplanowana i niechciana, przede wszystkim przeze mnie. Głupia…

Anna Cavalcante

Olá, o meu nome é Anna, eu fiquei grávida aos 18 anos, e devido à minha idade

Lily

I had an abortion and I'm not ashamed

Bryann Turner

It was the right decision for me at this time.

Sunny

To była moja druga aborcja. Jak się okazało, była dużo łatwiejsza, z…

Daisy

I had an abortion about seven years ago when I was 16. I was in an abusive…

Almma Crysta

Supe de mi embarazo el 19 de enero de 2018 por una ecografía transvaginal que…

Isa

Tenho 28 anos, namoro a 2 anos. Sou do interior.
Duas semanas atrás descobri que…

Pocahontas

Seré mamá cuando YO lo decida y ese día definitivamente no será hoy.

a.

Początek był raczej standardowy - spóźnił mi się okres, zrobiłam test ciążowy

Ronnie

because the time just wasn't right for me.