Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

آیا غیرقانونی بودن سقط جنین بر احساسات شما تأثیر گذاشته است؟

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

واکنش دیگران نسبت به سقط جنین شما چیست؟

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Julia

Uratowałam sobie życie

Monika Bery

24.01.2020 godzina 11.51
Tej daty nie i godziny nie zapomnę do końca swych dni.

Aby

I felt it was accapted to have an abortion

Gaby

Força, tudo que precisa!

Paula

i had an abortion

XHTarv

Too selfish, and ok with that for now.

Lea

Kobieto, jeśli zaszłaś w niechcianą ciążę, to nie wahaj się ani chwili. WOW…

Maria

Ser mamá por elección, no a la fuerza.

michel

i'm irish, i had an abortion while living in the netherlands.

Emily

It was the right thing to do.

Mulher

Uma escolha pra vida!

Ary

Yo he abortado 4 veces.

Anon

I had an abortion at 15...and my life is still going well

AS

I am having an abortion as I am writing this, at home with cytotec…

Julia

Razem z moich chłopakiem znamy się niecały rok , jest ode mnie młodszy o 4 lata…

Lu

Y aunque todos los días piense que podría haber sido, fue la mejor decisión…

Atenea

No eres la única. No estás sola. Transformalo en algo positivo para tu vida.

Mar Tina

Todo es muy reciente ... estoy recuperandome hace tan solo dos dias que sucedio.