Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

آیا غیرقانونی بودن سقط جنین بر احساسات شما تأثیر گذاشته است؟

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

واکنش دیگران نسبت به سقط جنین شما چیست؟

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Dani

Aborto a las 4 semanas, perdóname mi ángel.

pam carol

Yo aborte

Lily

MI CASO

AM

I had a surgical, had two kids, and then had medical abortion.

Tamsen Reid

I had an abortion because I did not want to be pregnant. I wasn't ready to…

Urszula

Po porodzie miałam postanowienie, wiecej dzieci nie chcę, mój ginekolog dobrze…

Louise Harper

I have had two abortions. One at the age of 22 which I paid privately for at 9…

Maria

Eu havia acabado de sair de um relacionamento quase passional. Tive uma recaída…

Ella

I was so scared but it was right and I know deep in my heart now.

Ania Kijawska

Mam dziecko, dom, męża zdecydowałam się na aborcję.

Meg

My abortion was NOT THAT PAINFUL. Don't believe in the horror stories!

Mariela

Aunque me cueste decirlo, yo aborté

Maria Madalena

Fiz um aborto e me sinto muito, muito aliviada!!!

Allison

My abortion was 100% my choice.

Margarita

Dicen que interrumpí una vida, yo siento que lo que hice fue continuar con la…

Val

Am I a horrible person

Anne Jellinek

I had two abortions in my life: one when I was 21 and newly married and one 8…

diana

naprawde nie miałam wyjścia jestem miesiąc po,nie bolało szczerze mówiąc…

Yvonne

My abortion was what needed to be done at that time. Deep down me I know I…

A.

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