Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

آیا غیرقانونی بودن سقط جنین بر احساسات شما تأثیر گذاشته است؟

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

واکنش دیگران نسبت به سقط جنین شما چیست؟

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

T.C.P

Bom, o espaço de tempo entre descobrir que estava gravida e realizar o aborto…

Leopard

한국에 계신 여성분들 절대로 망설이지 마세요

Francis

Una decisión consciente de vida

Anyel. Mtz.

Esto marcó mi vida, pero agradezco a Dios por esta segunda oportunidad

Daisy

I had an abortion about seven years ago when I was 16. I was in an abusive…

Andreita

yo aborte

Luna

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Sara

Tome la decisión ya que anteriormente (a los 15 años) ya había tenido un…

Mar Tina

Todo es muy reciente ... estoy recuperandome hace tan solo dos dias que sucedio.

luna oscura

¿En serio estoy embarazada?

Margarita

Dicen que interrumpí una vida, yo siento que lo que hice fue continuar con la…

JasminMisa

Abortar es tu elección!

Ths SOUZA

Bom , inicialmente eu e meu namorado que é americano mantemos uma relação a…

Claudia Aviles

i had an abortion, and 10 years later i became a mother. you have the right to…

Bobbie

The first time I was too young the next I was old enough to know I had no right…

Raquel

Perdón a mis angelitos!