Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

آیا غیرقانونی بودن سقط جنین بر احساسات شما تأثیر گذاشته است؟

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

واکنش دیگران نسبت به سقط جنین شما چیست؟

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Anyel. Mtz.

Esto marcó mi vida, pero agradezco a Dios por esta segunda oportunidad

Raquel

Perdón a mis angelitos!

Caroline

Never had any regrets

Gadzinka

Moja aborcja przemineła tak jak miała , wziełam tabletki potem dojadałam .

Riki

We're not monsters!

Monoirmarie

Yo aborté porque es mi derecho

JasminMisa

Abortar es tu elección!

Jennifer

Mi cuerpo, mi decisión

qbAnchic

This will be my 5th abortion today. This is the first time I've do e it with…

paola paola

Yo aborté

Jos

Era lo mejor

K.A.K.

Najgorszy dzień w moim życiu. Początek stycznia, wtedy zobaczyłam te…

aileen

I have had two abortions

Kiara

Lo hice por amor al bebé, no me merecía como mamá.

Meg

My abortion was NOT THAT PAINFUL. Don't believe in the horror stories!

Jennifer

At the age of 15 I was told that I would likely never be able to get pregnant…

Lucyna L

I had an abortion

Rocio Beron

Tome mi decisión y estoy mejor haciendo lo que quiero y siento!!

Angy :)

I decided to have an abortion, it wasnt easy but it was the best decision