Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

آیا غیرقانونی بودن سقط جنین بر احساسات شما تأثیر گذاشته است؟

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

واکنش دیگران نسبت به سقط جنین شما چیست؟

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Andreita

yo aborte

michel

i'm irish, i had an abortion while living in the netherlands.

Ruth

Zaczełao sie (wiadomo) od dwóch kresek i przerażenia. Szukałam możliwości…

lena0101

żaden powód do dumy, że wpadłam, ale że sie zdecydowałąm na aborcję, to jestem…

Godherself on Instagram

I had 4 abortions and I’m not ashamed

Jess

I had two...it was not a hard decision, and I'm glad I did it. Now, I'm a…

Yaya

Elegí no ser madre

carmilla

J'ai avorté quand j'avais 18 ans. Je ne le regrette pas, je suis fière d'avoir…

Nih

Fiz um aborto com 13 semanas , não se desespere vai dar tudo certo !

Fallen Angel

I had the SAFEST ABORTION even in the PHILIPPINES through womenonweb.org.

Hattie Ladd

I have had two abortions. The first one was when I was 20 and the second when I…

ana maria Duque

I had an abortion but this wasn't easy I was very afraid, but i never regret…

Anonimowa

Dokonałam tego co jest zakazane w tym kraju. Nie czuję się winna.

Tha

Primeiro, Calma!

Vamos lá, tenho 31 anos um filho de 7.
Voltei a me relacionar…

Katie

Nie klasyczna wpadka. Brane pigulki nie zadzialaly. Za duzy miks z innymi…

Jordan

The reviews were scary and I was afraid of what would happen when I took the…

Nthati

It was a difficult but necessary choice to have made.

Paula *

Yo acompañe a mi hermana quien pasó por este proceso, siempre fui una persona…