Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

آیا غیرقانونی بودن سقط جنین بر احساسات شما تأثیر گذاشته است؟

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

واکنش دیگران نسبت به سقط جنین شما چیست؟

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Paola XD

Yo aborté en Chile, donde es ilegal. Tengo 29 años. Lo hice con medicamentos, a…

Lily

I had a medical abortion (the pill) with BPAS when I was just shy of 8 weeks.

Lily

I had an abortion and I'm not ashamed

Maria

La decisión es tuya enlo que sigue te acompañamos

Anon

I had an abortion at 15...and my life is still going well

Angel M

To była 3 ciąża nieplanowana i niechciana, przede wszystkim przeze mnie. Głupia…

Andy

Decidí sobre mi futuro.

Wer

Tomé la decisión correcta, tal vez no justa, pero correcta.

Aleja12-09

Por siempre y para siempre en mi mente.

Tha

Primeiro, Calma!

Vamos lá, tenho 31 anos um filho de 7.
Voltei a me relacionar…

Maria

Eu havia acabado de sair de um relacionamento quase passional. Tive uma recaída…

josie

I had an abortion and now feel I have 10kgs off my shoulders alone, a little…

Ananda

No es mi primera vez, es mi segunda vez que lo hago y no me arrepiento.

SouthernBelle

No Regrets.

Carolina

Estou numa relação estável há 4 anos e há 2 parei de usar anticoncepcional…

Karolina B

Kiedy spóźniła mi się miesiączka ... Wtedy juz wiedziałam że to ciąża .

Dani

Aborto a las 4 semanas, perdóname mi ángel.