Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

آیا غیرقانونی بودن سقط جنین بر احساسات شما تأثیر گذاشته است؟

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

واکنش دیگران نسبت به سقط جنین شما چیست؟

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Liz

I cry. Going into the decision I was strong and certain that I wanted to have…

Ianne

A cry of freedom for all women who are dictated by the mentality of the norms…

Aby

I felt it was accapted to have an abortion

Sara

Postanowiłam opisać swoją historię, ponieważ historie innych kobiet bardo dużo…

Dani

Because I NEEDED TO DO IT!
Some may say I was selfish, other may say I'm going…

Alejandra

Tomé una desición

Chelsea

I had a painful abortion

Maria Madalena

Fiz um aborto e me sinto muito, muito aliviada!!!

Abigail

2 miesiące po aborcji. Moje życie wróciło do normy. Jest dobrze..

Susie

I'M NOT SORRY.

takaja

zrobiłabym to jeszcze raz

Dulcinea Vázquez

Las pastillas tardaron un poco mas de 3 horas en hacer efecto, no presenté…

Francine

Tomei anticoncepcional por uns 4 seguintes, no começo do ano comecei a sentir…

Luana Oliveira Jacob

Fiz um aborto - E me senti aliviada.Cada dia que me deito para dormir, fico…

kate swanson

I didn't intend it to, but safe, legal abortion played a huge part in my family…

C123

CRÓNICAS DE UNA MUJER QUE DECIDIÓ NO TRAER UN HIJO A ESTE MUNDO...

Valentina

Le pedí que me dejara...

Me había embarazado antes y había abortado, desde ese…

Regina Powell

I had an abortion and I'm about to have another.

Han

Don’t confuse ‘what ifs’ with regret.