Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

آیا غیرقانونی بودن سقط جنین بر احساسات شما تأثیر گذاشته است؟

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

واکنش دیگران نسبت به سقط جنین شما چیست؟

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Lea

Kobieto, jeśli zaszłaś w niechcianą ciążę, to nie wahaj się ani chwili. WOW…

Dani

Because I NEEDED TO DO IT!
Some may say I was selfish, other may say I'm going…

Tanya

I was not in a stable relationship and was already raising a daughter on my own.

elena

interrumpi un embarazo de 6 semanas

Laura

I had a surgical abortion at Planned Parenthood in Beacon, NY at 4 weeks.

Maggie

Desculpa não te ter dado uma chance de sobreviveres, mas fiquei demasiado…

Mary

I can now carry on with life.

AS

I am having an abortion as I am writing this, at home with cytotec…

Anna Cavalcante

Olá, o meu nome é Anna, eu fiquei grávida aos 18 anos, e devido à minha idade

Raquel

Perdón a mis angelitos!

Laura

Desde que confirmé el embarazo, pensé cómo podría llevar a cabo el aborto.

Rednwhite

Most difficult choice I’ve ever made

Camila Gray

I had an abortion,im having my abortion.

Andreita

yo aborte

Cherokee Schill

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Renata k

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Yvonne

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