Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

آیا غیرقانونی بودن سقط جنین بر احساسات شما تأثیر گذاشته است؟

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

واکنش دیگران نسبت به سقط جنین شما چیست؟

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Priscilla Silva

Oi, bom é tanta coisa pra falar ... mas vamos lá! Abortei em Março dia 17

Rachelle

I have had 3 abortions, one clinical, 2 medical. I do not regret those…

Carol

I woke up in bed, and thought this is a new beginning for him and I. I could…

Raquel Monterrey

I spoke with the spirit of my child before my abortion. That spirit who was…

Joanna

Moje życie to moje wybory. / My life is my choices.

Angela

Pregnancy and abortion - what a trip.

Yasmin Silva

Enfim, vou contar minha história com muita paz no meu coração e na minha vida.

MS

ABORTAR ESTÁ BIEN

Francis

Una decisión consciente de vida

Pooh

Terminé mi embarazo

Fanti. Alexandra

Sentí y decidí.

aaa

I had an abortion

Nih

Fiz um aborto com 13 semanas , não se desespere vai dar tudo certo !

Laura Helena

Olá meninas , me chamo Laura , tenho 21 anos ,uma filha linda de 2 aninhos e…

Emily

It isn't and shouldn't be as taboo as it is made out to be.

Patricia Bronstein

I was married and had known since an early age that I did not want to be a…

Cristina

No fue bueno pero fue lo mejor.