Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

آیا غیرقانونی بودن سقط جنین بر احساسات شما تأثیر گذاشته است؟

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

واکنش دیگران نسبت به سقط جنین شما چیست؟

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Jen

I had an abortion and I'm so pleased that I had that option. I was only 18…

Jess

I was let down by birth control and had two abortions. During my second…

luz

getting thru the pain.

Chelsea

I had a painful abortion

Ny

I just had my 3rd son 4 months prior finding out I was pregnant. I got a…

Wer

Tomé la decisión correcta, tal vez no justa, pero correcta.

Jéssica Santos

Me submeti ao aborto!

Monika Bery

24.01.2020 godzina 11.51
Tej daty nie i godziny nie zapomnę do końca swych dni.

Daniela

Yo aborté y es la mejor decisión que pude haber tomado.

Jedna z Tysiecy

Kiedy nie chcesz dziecka, i wiesz, ze tak musi byc.

gdy twoj ex partner z…

Aguaperdida Pam

Fue una decisión muy difícil pero estoy segura de que fue la mejor.
Un embarazo

Kah

Decisões difíceis exigem coragem.

Anne

Que alivio!

mary cry

pior momento de minha vida

Ella

I was so scared but it was right and I know deep in my heart now.

Lucero Lucero

Creo que por fin tuve control de mi vida.

AM

I had a surgical, had two kids, and then had medical abortion.

britta

Something that has carried with me ever since.