Lora Fleming

Share your story

I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

آیا غیرقانونی بودن سقط جنین بر احساسات شما تأثیر گذاشته است؟

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

واکنش دیگران نسبت به سقط جنین شما چیست؟

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Yaya

Elegí no ser madre

elena

interrumpi un embarazo de 6 semanas

Luna

Fiz um aborto - E foi a melhor decisão que eu podia ter tomado para a minha…

kate swanson

I didn't intend it to, but safe, legal abortion played a huge part in my family…

Anonimowa

Dwie kreski...Te dwie czerwone kreski na białym papierku były jak kubeł zimnej…

Marie

I had an abortion. It's a choice I want available for every woman, for…

C123

CRÓNICAS DE UNA MUJER QUE DECIDIÓ NO TRAER UN HIJO A ESTE MUNDO...

Naad

I had an abortion when I was 23 years old

Ths SOUZA

Bom , inicialmente eu e meu namorado que é americano mantemos uma relação a…

Sunny

To była moja druga aborcja. Jak się okazało, była dużo łatwiejsza, z…

Kyky

Your Dreams Are Real, So Are Abortions.

Maria

Ser mamá por elección, no a la fuerza.

Vicky

I had an abortion

Regina Kunst

Aku memutuskan untuk aborsi karena pada saat itu, aku masih menempuh S3 dan…

Ananda

No es mi primera vez, es mi segunda vez que lo hago y no me arrepiento.

Ashley Engbrecht

At the young age of 17, I was the victim of sexual assault. There is nothing…

Ammy

Yo he estado en las dos caras de la moneda, cuando tenia 16 años quede…

Daniela

Y lo volvería a hacer, habia terminado con mi ex pololoy el era super…

Rachelle

I have had 3 abortions, one clinical, 2 medical. I do not regret those…