Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

آیا غیرقانونی بودن سقط جنین بر احساسات شما تأثیر گذاشته است؟

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

واکنش دیگران نسبت به سقط جنین شما چیست؟

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Edyta

Nie wstydzę się tego, że jestem teraz szczęśliwa!!!

Clarice

Sempre fui a favor do aborto, não por uma questão feminista, mas por acreditar…

Sarah

Because I could barely provide for the child I had already.

A.

Pomimo zastosowanej antykoncepcji, zaszłam w ciążę. Brałam tabletki.

Any Weather

Merci à toutes les femmes qui ont lutter pour le droit d'avorter! Merci à…

Maria

Ser mamá por elección, no a la fuerza.

Zosia

Dowiedziałam się o mojej niechcianej ciąży podczas wizyty kontrolnej u…

Fernanda

Yo aborté y soy una chica libre

Samanta

Uma escolha difícil.

Fabiola Moreno

I had an abortion when I was 16 years old.

Yasmin Silva

Enfim, vou contar minha história com muita paz no meu coração e na minha vida.

Maru

Se puede acceder de forma legal

rosita

La desición más difícil de mi vida

G.

Zawsze miałam nieregularny okres, także tydzień spóźnienia nie dawał mi…

Manuella Silva

Grávida aos 18.


Olá. Vim contar pra voces minha experiencia com aborto.
Eu ficava…

Aguacate

Como abortar en una ciudad donde es penalizado el aborto las primeras semanas.

Joice

Já é difícil criar 2 filhos, não conseguiria lidar com um terceiro..

Maria

La decisión es tuya enlo que sigue te acompañamos

Nastka

Spóźniał mi się tydzień okres, więc zrobiłam test wyszedł dodatnio, drugi i…

Bia

E no começo me arrependi mas vi que seria a melhor opção, e escrevendo meu…