Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

آیا غیرقانونی بودن سقط جنین بر احساسات شما تأثیر گذاشته است؟

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

واکنش دیگران نسبت به سقط جنین شما چیست؟

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Elisa Isalia

Stosowałam przez dwa lata tabletki anty. Wszystko było ok doczasu az pewnego…

Alex

Never felt so relieved in my life. I owe everything to planned parenthood and…

Han

Don’t confuse ‘what ifs’ with regret.

Virginie

À 32 ans, j'ai avorté parce que ce n'était pas le bon moment.

Karolina

Miałam aborcję

Pippa

I had 2 abortiona in the space of a year...

was 20 nearrly 21 i hadnt had a…

Mar Tina

Todo es muy reciente ... estoy recuperandome hace tan solo dos dias que sucedio.

Lola

mifepristona + misoprostol

Laura

Fue la mejor decicion para todos pero eso no cambia que yo amaba a mi bebe

Valentina

Le pedí que me dejara...

Me había embarazado antes y había abortado, desde ese…

a.

Początek był raczej standardowy - spóźnił mi się okres, zrobiłam test ciążowy

Paola XD

Yo aborté en Chile, donde es ilegal. Tengo 29 años. Lo hice con medicamentos, a…

Anyel. Mtz.

Esto marcó mi vida, pero agradezco a Dios por esta segunda oportunidad

Maria Madalena

Fiz um aborto e me sinto muito, muito aliviada!!!

Joice

Já é difícil criar 2 filhos, não conseguiria lidar com um terceiro..

Jos

Era lo mejor

Maleja

Yo aborté.

Fallen Angel

I had the SAFEST ABORTION even in the PHILIPPINES through womenonweb.org.