Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

آیا غیرقانونی بودن سقط جنین بر احساسات شما تأثیر گذاشته است؟

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

واکنش دیگران نسبت به سقط جنین شما چیست؟

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Samanta

Uma escolha difícil.

Mitzi .

I had an abortion. And i know that was the best choice.

Fernanda

Yo aborté y soy una chica libre

Deborah

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Lise

I had an abortion and I don't regret it. It was a hard decision but one I knew…

Joanna

Odzyskałam Moc:)

Ana

Fiz um aborto e não me arrependo. O meu desejo é que todas as mulheres tenham…

Masha

This isn't my first abortion.... :'( My second one I am currently scheduled for.

Bia

E no começo me arrependi mas vi que seria a melhor opção, e escrevendo meu…

Eva Paradise

Aborté. Fue un alivio. Nunca me arrepentí. Hoy tengo dos hijos y puedo criarlos…

Sarah Brown Sara

A pesar de que tengo la edad suficiente y una pareja estable y en planes de…

Marta M.

Dokonałam aborcji

Camila Gray

I had an abortion,im having my abortion.

Kiara

Lo hice por amor al bebé, no me merecía como mamá.

Vanessa Behrens

Decisión personal

Pippa

I had 2 abortiona in the space of a year...

was 20 nearrly 21 i hadnt had a…

Aleja12-09

Por siempre y para siempre en mi mente.

Nthati

It was a difficult but necessary choice to have made.

Anne

Que alivio!

Dina Wood

I had an abortion.It was illegal in the United States at the time, but I was…