Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

آیا غیرقانونی بودن سقط جنین بر احساسات شما تأثیر گذاشته است؟

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

واکنش دیگران نسبت به سقط جنین شما چیست؟

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

chanel

I did it because as a female that is my right to control my body no man or…

Van Nessa

I had an abortion.

aileen

I have had two abortions

Aisling

Minor blip overcome thanks to Women on Web

Claire

My first abortion took place when I was 19 and the second, when I was 26. I…

carmilla

J'ai avorté quand j'avais 18 ans. Je ne le regrette pas, je suis fière d'avoir…

Cacau

O aborto é uma escolha apenas da MULHER.

Lucero Lucero

Creo que por fin tuve control de mi vida.

Lily

I had a medical abortion (the pill) with BPAS when I was just shy of 8 weeks.

Joice

Já é difícil criar 2 filhos, não conseguiria lidar com um terceiro..

Meg.

Your a strong women!

Fabiola Moreno

I had an abortion when I was 16 years old.

Yana

I had an abortion-it was a difficult decision...

Carol

I woke up in bed, and thought this is a new beginning for him and I. I could…

Lisa

I always thought I cannot be pregnant, as I was diagnosed with primal…

Gadzinka

Moja aborcja przemineła tak jak miała , wziełam tabletki potem dojadałam .