Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

آیا غیرقانونی بودن سقط جنین بر احساسات شما تأثیر گذاشته است؟

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

واکنش دیگران نسبت به سقط جنین شما چیست؟

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Ania Kijawska

Mam dziecko, dom, męża zdecydowałam się na aborcję.

Mitzi .

I had an abortion. And i know that was the best choice.

Aby

I felt it was accapted to have an abortion

Ths SOUZA

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Mulher

Uma escolha pra vida!

Fabiola Moreno

I had an abortion when I was 16 years old.

Dominika

Historia jest dosyć banalna i podejrzewam, że nie ja jedna zaszłam w taki…

Marcela

Es más una historia de amor, que de un aborto pero posiblemente en algo te…

Andreita

yo aborte

fiore fiol

Yo me practique un aborto con citotec porque acababab de tener una bebe y…

Ammy

Yo he estado en las dos caras de la moneda, cuando tenia 16 años quede…

Maria

Eu havia acabado de sair de um relacionamento quase passional. Tive uma recaída…

squaine123

Not in this alone

Sierra

I had to get an abortion after my Skyla IUD was placed improperly or slipped. I…

Julia

Uratowałam sobie życie

Anonimowa

Dokonałam tego co jest zakazane w tym kraju. Nie czuję się winna.

Regina Powell

I had an abortion and I'm about to have another.

Zosia

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