Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

آیا غیرقانونی بودن سقط جنین بر احساسات شما تأثیر گذاشته است؟

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

واکنش دیگران نسبت به سقط جنین شما چیست؟

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Beata

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Daniela

Tengo una hija de 4 años, pero aun asi yo aborte este año.

An

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Liz Price

I had an abortion

Birdy <3

MY BODY, MY CHOICE!

Jennifer

Sin duda ha sido la decisión más difícil que he tomado en lo que llevo de vida

Susie

I'M NOT SORRY.

Anna Cavalcante

Olá, o meu nome é Anna, eu fiquei grávida aos 18 anos, e devido à minha idade

Sun Flower

Me, and my guy friend had just found out I was pregnant, though he was super…

Brenda

Having an abortion was the right thing for my family.

Laura

Desde que confirmé el embarazo, pensé cómo podría llevar a cabo el aborto.

Maria

Ser mamá por elección, no a la fuerza.

Mulher

Uma escolha pra vida!

Emily

It was the right thing to do.

Carolina Posso

I had an abortion porque me sentía sola, sentía que todo el mundo se iba a…

Jéssica Santos

Me submeti ao aborto!

Priscilla Silva

Oi, bom é tanta coisa pra falar ... mas vamos lá! Abortei em Março dia 17

Katarina

w wieku 20 lat. Byłam za młoda, mam wielkie plany na przyszłość, nie chciałam…