Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

آیا غیرقانونی بودن سقط جنین بر احساسات شما تأثیر گذاشته است؟

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

واکنش دیگران نسبت به سقط جنین شما چیست؟

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

y.enedi

yo decidi un aborto,

Meg.

Your a strong women!

Pippa

I had 2 abortiona in the space of a year...

was 20 nearrly 21 i hadnt had a…

Riki

We're not monsters!

Emmy Smith

It was the best decision of my life

Ammy

Yo he estado en las dos caras de la moneda, cuando tenia 16 años quede…

Pocahontas

Seré mamá cuando YO lo decida y ese día definitivamente no será hoy.

kimsamsoon

It was less painful than expected

Javiera

Yo aborte en Chile, en pandemia gracias a Wow

katrina nicole

the only time i look back is to say thank god

Jen

I had an abortion and I'm so pleased that I had that option. I was only 18…

Maria

Ser mamá por elección, no a la fuerza.

Lauren Jackson

I got pregnant while in college in Tennessee in 1976 and had an illegal…

Laura

Fue una difícil decisión a pesar que no es mi primer aborto. Sé que tengo un…

laura

Mi experiencia

Kiara

Lo hice por amor al bebé, no me merecía como mamá.

Morrigan

I don't regret it. It was one of the wisest decisions I ever made in my life. I'…