Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

آیا غیرقانونی بودن سقط جنین بر احساسات شما تأثیر گذاشته است؟

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

واکنش دیگران نسبت به سقط جنین شما چیست؟

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Sierra

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Angel M

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Andrea

And it was just fine. I had just turned 20, and was living in a rented room in…

Luka

Hice lo mejor que pude, estando bajo toda la presión del mundo.

pam carol

Yo aborte

Mariana C

Estava grávida de 08 semanas e não sabia!

takaja

zrobiłabym to jeszcze raz

Laura

Fue la mejor decicion para todos pero eso no cambia que yo amaba a mi bebe

Maggie

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Lucie

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Nami

porque mi situación económica era pésima, al igual que la de mi pareja, ninguno…

มานี ชูใจ

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Won’t be named Won’t be named

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deedee

한국에 계신 분들 걱정마십쇼!! 낙심하시 마시고 자신을 믿으세요!

G.

Zawsze miałam nieregularny okres, także tydzień spóźnienia nie dawał mi…

Duda

Sendo lactante

Anyel. Mtz.

Esto marcó mi vida, pero agradezco a Dios por esta segunda oportunidad

Iolanda

Ser solidária com quem abortou e defender a descriminalização jamais me fez…