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After the abortion I was just relived and I felt empowered - it was about my life. Before the abortion I was very afraid, I felt irresponsible, a little stuipid and trapped. The latter was the worst.

The abortion itself was physically very painful for me, but that didn't matter at all (giving birth is probably worse). However, the entire process with obligatory consulation was awful. Although in Germany the law requires, that the obligatory consulation has to be objective, my consultant was a strict Christian who tried to convince me and my partner to have a baby. She was manipulative and had a very strange image of women in general. Although the clinic staff was not as extreme as her, they were very disrespectful. The entire process was really bad for me and I cried a lot - not because of the abortion, but because of the people and how they dealt with me.

I generally do not plan to have kids, being a mother is not for me

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I didn't tell my family, since they are very conservative. However, all my friends at least accepted it, although some of them were a little shocked. I was very open about it, because even in Germany I feel that there is a huge stigma about it. Although I am a defender of radical reproductive justice, I felt affected by that stigma, so I told my friends only AFTER the abortion.

Dolores Feffer

I had two.

No woman should ever have to justify a dessicion on her own body.

Elizabeth Elizabeth

Yesterday was my second abortion. My first one was an easy choice as I was just…

Barbara

MAM PRAWO DECYDOWAĆ

Liz Price

I had an abortion

Maria sovitlana

i really cant believe that i can do it in a country where so much hard law…

DeOne

Its gonna be the first time i speak about my abortion.
I was just a 25 yo girl

Rosa

Yo aborte

Paulina

To była historia inna niż wszystkie. Mam wspaniałą rodzine. Męża i niespełna 2…

Sarah

I feel much relieved thanks to women on web because living in a country where…

Eveline BANGOURA

Bonjour je partage avec vous mon expérience aujourd'hui jeune fille de 18ans…

Ale

Muy difícil decisión

Ana Vargas

Mi aborto lo hice a los 14años hoy tengo una hija de 23 años y un hijo de 17…

Marina

Nie będę opisywała o tym jak to się stało, że się dowiedziałam, każdy ma na to…

Claudiagyn

Aconteceu comigo.

Bea

Enfim,tudo começou em Outubro. Tive relações sexuais com meu parceiro fixo (Meu…

Layla Sesey

I had an abortion when i was 19 yrs . I last saw my period in December till…

Fran

YO DECIDÍ

chiquiss67

Hola.

Tengo 22 años y aborte en febrero de este año. Me di cuenta de que estaba…

laMaga

Pense en el bienestar de los 2