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2018 Deutschland

After the abortion I was just relived and I felt empowered - it was about my life. Before the abortion I was very afraid, I felt irresponsible, a little stuipid and trapped. The latter was the worst.

The abortion itself was physically very painful for me, but that didn't matter at all (giving birth is probably worse). However, the entire process with obligatory consulation was awful. Although in Germany the law requires, that the obligatory consulation has to be objective, my consultant was a strict Christian who tried to convince me and my partner to have a baby. She was manipulative and had a very strange image of women in general. Although the clinic staff was not as extreme as her, they were very disrespectful. The entire process was really bad for me and I cried a lot - not because of the abortion, but because of the people and how they dealt with me.

I generally do not plan to have kids, being a mother is not for me

Wie haben andere Menschen auf Ihre Abtreibung reagiert?

I didn't tell my family, since they are very conservative. However, all my friends at least accepted it, although some of them were a little shocked. I was very open about it, because even in Germany I feel that there is a huge stigma about it. Although I am a defender of radical reproductive justice, I felt affected by that stigma, so I told my friends only AFTER the abortion.

ROCÍO

Lo logré....estoy tranquila

Gemma

The best decision for me.

Butterfly

Bylam za granica kiedy postanowilam zrobic pierwszy test ciazowy. Okres…

Lila bleu

J’ai avorté
Mes sentiments sont très confus.
J’aurai aimé le garder, mais les…

Claudiagyn

Aconteceu comigo.

Lili

I interrupted my early pregnancy

Agnieszka

Miałam aborcję - nie żałuję

Luiza N.

Minha história foi completamente diferente de tudo que li aqui no site…

Brenda

Having an abortion was the right thing for my family.

Vivi Lili

La vdd no creo que sea malo soy una mujer casada y tengo un precioso hijo pero…

jaque

com dor e com culpa

Meg.

Your a strong women!

Leonor Leonor

Mi madre quería nietos... Yo solo quiero dejar de recriminarme.

Zuzanna

Chciałabym opisać moją historię, która zakończyła się dokładnie trzy dni temu.

Kyky

Your Dreams Are Real, So Are Abortions.

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