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2018 Deutschland

After the abortion I was just relived and I felt empowered - it was about my life. Before the abortion I was very afraid, I felt irresponsible, a little stuipid and trapped. The latter was the worst.

The abortion itself was physically very painful for me, but that didn't matter at all (giving birth is probably worse). However, the entire process with obligatory consulation was awful. Although in Germany the law requires, that the obligatory consulation has to be objective, my consultant was a strict Christian who tried to convince me and my partner to have a baby. She was manipulative and had a very strange image of women in general. Although the clinic staff was not as extreme as her, they were very disrespectful. The entire process was really bad for me and I cried a lot - not because of the abortion, but because of the people and how they dealt with me.

I generally do not plan to have kids, being a mother is not for me

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I didn't tell my family, since they are very conservative. However, all my friends at least accepted it, although some of them were a little shocked. I was very open about it, because even in Germany I feel that there is a huge stigma about it. Although I am a defender of radical reproductive justice, I felt affected by that stigma, so I told my friends only AFTER the abortion.

Andrea

It's your choice.

Patricia Bronstein

I was married and had known since an early age that I did not want to be a…

LOLO

Made me who I am today

Mariana Leitão

A tal história do “ engravidei por acidente” é real!

Raíra

Bom, tenho 27 anos e em 2018 resolvi fazer uma segunda graduacao. Namoro tem 4…

Teaser

Nunca hubiera querido estar en esa encrucijada

julie

My life became changed

Francisca

yo encauce mi destino...

Emilia Aguilera

Tuve un embarazo inesperado y por una medicación que tomo de por vida, mi hijo…

Sarah Brown Sara

A pesar de que tengo la edad suficiente y una pareja estable y en planes de…

Nih

Fiz um aborto com 13 semanas , não se desespere vai dar tudo certo !

Nami Tibbers

Não vi outra opção. Então tomei coragem e optei por um aborto.

Nthati

It was a difficult but necessary choice to have made.

Daniela

My perception of so many things changed a lot with this experience and realised…

Luna

Aún grito perdón

M. .

Fiz um aborto e me sinto aliviada. Agradeço muito a toda a equipe do Women on…

chiquiss67

Hola.

Tengo 22 años y aborte en febrero de este año. Me di cuenta de que estaba…