Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

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in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Hat die Illegalität Ihres Schwangerschaftsabbruchs Ihre Gefühle beeinflusst?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Wie haben andere Menschen auf Ihre Abtreibung reagiert?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Julieta Iovaldi Curutchet

Decidí desde el principio no compartir esa experiencia con la pareja de ese…

baby t

i had 2 abortions first 1 when i was 16 i knew i was ready to have a child or…

Jedna z Tysiecy

Kiedy nie chcesz dziecka, i wiesz, ze tak musi byc.

gdy twoj ex partner z…

Leopard

한국에 계신 여성분들 절대로 망설이지 마세요

EV

I had an abortion and I do not regret my choice. It is very important to me to…

Gemma

The best decision for me.

Anne

Que alivio!

Margarita

Dicen que interrumpí una vida, yo siento que lo que hice fue continuar con la…

Grace Grace

Y no existe arrepentimiento.

Manuella Silva

Grávida aos 18.


Olá. Vim contar pra voces minha experiencia com aborto.
Eu ficava…

Ola

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Pocahontas

Seré mamá cuando YO lo decida y ese día definitivamente no será hoy.

M

At first i didn't know i was pregnant until i noticed i was vomiting a lot, but…

Ella

I was so scared but it was right and I know deep in my heart now.

Carol .

Acabei de começar minha carreira, não quero ser mãe nesse momento

H

I had two abortions by the time I was 23 and a third when I was 29. All…