Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

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in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Hat die Illegalität Ihres Schwangerschaftsabbruchs Ihre Gefühle beeinflusst?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Wie haben andere Menschen auf Ihre Abtreibung reagiert?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Anne Jellinek

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Paola XD

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Sylvie Shene

A Life-Saving Experience

Jordan

The reviews were scary and I was afraid of what would happen when I took the…

Pooh

Terminé mi embarazo

Maleja

Yo aborté.

Julieta Iovaldi Curutchet

Decidí desde el principio no compartir esa experiencia con la pareja de ese…

Julia

Uratowałam sobie życie

A.

Dzień, w którym dowiedziałam się o ciąży (kolejnej ciąży) był jednym z…

Carol .

Acabei de começar minha carreira, não quero ser mãe nesse momento

Lucy Bennett

I was almost 5 months pregnant and I had no idea. I had just turned 16 and me…

Jennifer

Sin duda ha sido la decisión más difícil que he tomado en lo que llevo de vida

Montse

"Un acto amoroso"

Vanessa Behrens

Decisión personal

kate swanson

I didn't intend it to, but safe, legal abortion played a huge part in my family…

Nih

Fiz um aborto com 13 semanas , não se desespere vai dar tudo certo !

Andrea

Todo va a pasar, hace apenas 72 hs que termino pero se me han hecho eternas, se…

Raquel Monterrey

I spoke with the spirit of my child before my abortion. That spirit who was…