Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

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in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Hat die Illegalität Ihres Schwangerschaftsabbruchs Ihre Gefühle beeinflusst?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Wie haben andere Menschen auf Ihre Abtreibung reagiert?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Julieta Iovaldi Curutchet

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Lisa

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diana

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Tannicola Nkata

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Jes

No fue facil pero lo hise y me ha hido muy bien! Fue mi mejor decición!

Paula

i had an abortion

luna oscura

¿En serio estoy embarazada?

Lu

Unexpected feelings

Cacau

O aborto é uma escolha apenas da MULHER.

Aguaperdida Pam

Fue una decisión muy difícil pero estoy segura de que fue la mejor.
Un embarazo

Sierra

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Jen

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Emilamontreal

J'ai avorté suite à ma grossesse arrêtée à 8 semaines

Angy :)

I decided to have an abortion, it wasnt easy but it was the best decision

Na

Pois tenho direito de escolher o que é melhor pra mim! O importante é não se…

Aleja12-09

Por siempre y para siempre en mi mente.

Ashley Engbrecht

At the young age of 17, I was the victim of sexual assault. There is nothing…

Cristina

No fue bueno pero fue lo mejor.

Emily Mars

O pesadelo de uma gravidez indesejada.