Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

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in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Hat die Illegalität Ihres Schwangerschaftsabbruchs Ihre Gefühle beeinflusst?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Wie haben andere Menschen auf Ihre Abtreibung reagiert?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Ny

I just had my 3rd son 4 months prior finding out I was pregnant. I got a…

Won’t be named Won’t be named

I had an abortion a week after my twenty second birthday, I was five and a half…

Joanna

Moje życie to moje wybory. / My life is my choices.

Sylwia Zatońska

Ciąża nie powinna być przypadkiem!!!

Julia

Uwolniłam się od piekła i zyskałam szansę na szczęście

Ania anonimowa

Odpowiednia pora.

Naad

I had an abortion when I was 23 years old

Sam

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Klaudia

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Johanna P.

Era lo que tenia que hacer

Lucy Bennett

I was almost 5 months pregnant and I had no idea. I had just turned 16 and me…

Bia Li

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britta

Something that has carried with me ever since.

Constanza

Bueno yo aborte por que no encontré otra salida...
A principios de diciembre del…

Lili

I interrupted my early pregnancy

Freedom77

I was lucky enough to be able to have an NHS surgical termination at 8 weeks.

Abbie

I had an abortion and don't regret it.

Weronika

Dzien w którym potwierdzila sie moja ciaza był jak wyrocznia... Mam dużo swoich…

Francis

Una decisión consciente de vida