Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

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in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Hat die Illegalität Ihres Schwangerschaftsabbruchs Ihre Gefühle beeinflusst?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Wie haben andere Menschen auf Ihre Abtreibung reagiert?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Edyta

Nie wstydzę się tego, że jestem teraz szczęśliwa!!!

Maria

La decisión es tuya enlo que sigue te acompañamos

paola paola

Yo aborté

C.

I had an abortion, I don't regret it but I can't get over it. The lack of…

CPA

Olá, tenho 24 anos e fiz um aborto com aproximadamente 8 semanas. Fiz questão…

Joanna

Moje życie to moje wybory. / My life is my choices.

Regina Kunst

Aku memutuskan untuk aborsi karena pada saat itu, aku masih menempuh S3 dan…

C. Ferreira

Pior dia da minha vida

Sabine Ryan

It's not as bad as you think. Please read my story!

Alejandra

Tomé una desición

Yaya

Elegí no ser madre

Won’t be named Won’t be named

I had an abortion a week after my twenty second birthday, I was five and a half…

Margarita

Dicen que interrumpí una vida, yo siento que lo que hice fue continuar con la…

Andrea

And it was just fine. I had just turned 20, and was living in a rented room in…

Jes

No fue facil pero lo hise y me ha hido muy bien! Fue mi mejor decición!

Nanda

Oi meninas, venho aqui contar meu relato para vocês pq acredito que de alguma…

A alexandra

Mi futuro, mi familia

Sixtine

Tout choix à sa difficulté, le tout est d'assumer.

Angela

Pregnancy and abortion - what a trip.