Lora Fleming

Partagez votre expérience

I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 Vereinigte Staaten

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Hat die Illegalität Ihres Schwangerschaftsabbruchs Ihre Gefühle beeinflusst?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Wie haben andere Menschen auf Ihre Abtreibung reagiert?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Jes

No fue facil pero lo hise y me ha hido muy bien! Fue mi mejor decición!

Susie

I'M NOT SORRY.

Teaser

Nunca hubiera querido estar en esa encrucijada

Morrigan

I don't regret it. It was one of the wisest decisions I ever made in my life. I'…

Angel M

To była 3 ciąża nieplanowana i niechciana, przede wszystkim przeze mnie. Głupia…

Julieta Iovaldi Curutchet

Decidí desde el principio no compartir esa experiencia con la pareja de ese…

Jennifer

At the age of 15 I was told that I would likely never be able to get pregnant…

Lisa

I always thought I cannot be pregnant, as I was diagnosed with primal…

LOLO

Made me who I am today

Ronnie

because the time just wasn't right for me.

michel

i'm irish, i had an abortion while living in the netherlands.

JJ

Ich bin froh über die Entscheidung

Ana

Fiz um aborto e não me arrependo. O meu desejo é que todas as mulheres tenham…

Rike

It was a birthday

Julia

Postanowiłam się podzielić swoją historią, ponieważ gdy szukałam informacji na…

Adriana Reyes

Hola mi nombre es Adriana tengo 22 años y soy estudiante de Pedagogía; quisiera…

Maria

La decisión es tuya enlo que sigue te acompañamos