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Don’t confuse ‘what ifs’ with regret.

2016 Großbritannien

Sometimes I feel selfish, but then I stop and tell myself, no it’s my body and my life. I don’t regret what I did and need to stop letting the what ifs get into my head!!

The process itself was straight forward in terms of how everything went about. But for me mentally and physically it was horrendous. I knew as soon as I found out I was pregnant that I didn’t want the baby. I wasn’t ready. I’d just handed my notice in at work and my partner and i were going travelling later that year for 12 months. Like I said, the process was straightforward. I met with my GP who gave me the number of a clinic I had to ring. I made an appointment, had a scan and discussed options. The nursing staff were incredibly friendly and non judgemental. It felt like a very warm environment. My first option was the pill. I could have taken one then and come back the following day and taken another one, but because I’d already lied to work about where I was, the fact I worked an hour away and the fact I was a teacher, I couldn’t go through with it. So because of time restraints my second option was minor surgery to remove the fetus. It was painful, and both during and after. After a few hours there was a lot of a blood and the cramps were horrendous. There is still a stigma around abortion and because of that I’ve lived with this secret for almost 2 years. Because of the stigma I couldn’t tell my boss so I had to go back to work the next day and teach 32 ten year olds whilst I was in incredible pain and still miscarrying.

Wie haben andere Menschen auf Ihre Abtreibung reagiert?

The only person who knows about the abortion was my partner at the time. Something I’ve found difficult since I made my decision was coping with the fact he didn’t want me to go through with it. It’s something he held against me for the rest of our relationship.

Cristina

No fue bueno pero fue lo mejor.

lena0101

żaden powód do dumy, że wpadłam, ale że sie zdecydowałąm na aborcję, to jestem…

Riki

We're not monsters!

Francis

Una decisión consciente de vida

Jay

I had a medical abortion when i was 18 years old at 5 weeks pregnant. Yes, it…

alexandra

j´ai eu un avortement

Viridiana Aguilar

I had an abortion

josie

I had an abortion and now feel I have 10kgs off my shoulders alone, a little…

Ashley Engbrecht

At the young age of 17, I was the victim of sexual assault. There is nothing…

Gigi

I forgot my birth control for a couple days on a trip, and it was enough to…

Amanda

E não me arrependo, não se culpe por isso
Você é dona de si.
Eu sou bem jovem

Manuella Silva

Grávida aos 18.


Olá. Vim contar pra voces minha experiencia com aborto.
Eu ficava…

Mulher

Uma escolha pra vida!

Nami Tibbers

Não vi outra opção. Então tomei coragem e optei por um aborto.

Liz

Eu tinha 22 anos, minha menstruação atrasou e meus seios estavam muito inchados.

Zuzanna

Chciałabym opisać moją historię, która zakończyła się dokładnie trzy dni temu.

Sam

I had a Medical Abortion - Painful Experience, Life Changing

Julia

Uwolniłam się od piekła i zyskałam szansę na szczęście

E. Souza

Espero que ajude outras mulheres, pois assim como eu, no desespero, procurei…