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Made me who I am today

2006 Vereinigte Staaten

I have many conflicting feelings. In many ways, by getting pregnant, I realized how much I want children, a family, as one of my lifelong goals. I knew I could not provide the type of home I want to raise a family in during that at that time in my life. In many ways my inner dissidence about my decision over the last 10 years has caused me emotional strife and turmoil. Sometimes questioning, what if? I don't expect that to ever change, as I feel I can not openly mourn the loss of the little one that I know I someday want. But with time I realized...why put a question mark where god put a period?

I had a surgical abortion and something went wrong with the first attempt, so I had to come back one week later to have the procedure repeated. The doctor told me it was because I had a "heart shaped uterus." The week in between was filled with anxiety, guilt, and fear that I would never be able to bear children in the future. Once it was all done, I was absolutely relieved. I learned actually how strong I could be, and about how I do desire children, when I am ready for them.

I had just turned 18 and graduated from high school. I had plans of attending University in the fall, and saw my dreams crashing down with this unplanned pregnancy. I could not bear the idea of having a child without having enough money in my bank account to pay rent, and without the education to get a well paying job. I want a child when I am able to provide a life with opportunity, with stability and love. At that time in my life I was just learning what being an adult was about.

Wie haben andere Menschen auf Ihre Abtreibung reagiert?

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Fabiola Moreno

I had an abortion when I was 16 years old.

Kera

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Bri

I knew I was pregnant as soon as I was around two weeks. I had never been…

pam carol

Yo aborte

K

I was extremely lucky to find a safe place for my abortion.

Alexa

Ojala alguna vez me perdones... pero fue. La mejor decisión..

Delia

I had an abortion and it changed my life, for better and for worse.

Freedom77

I was lucky enough to be able to have an NHS surgical termination at 8 weeks.

Adriana

Myślałam, że będzie gorzej, na szczęście cały czas była ze mną moja druga…

Naii C

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Maree

It was sad but necessary

Evelyn

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Ruth

Zaczełao sie (wiadomo) od dwóch kresek i przerażenia. Szukałam możliwości…

Ania

Wczoraj dokonałam aborcji.
Odejście od męża, związanie się z nowym, wydawałoby…

Ana Costa

Fiz o aborto com 7 semanas

D.G

Aborto Simples e tranquilo com Cytotec

Contra o aborto até precisar dele

Mariana

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