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I was extremely lucky to find a safe place for my abortion.

2007 Philippinen

I had been to several OB-GYNs in hospitals. I told them I didn't want to and could not have a child but of course, they couldn't do anything because of the law here. Finally, at around 7 wks, I went to an NGO with a couple of female relatives. I felt extremely lucky because one of my relatives works in women's rights so we were able to go to an NGO with a real doctor and a counselor who interviewed me to make sure I was firm in my decision. They made me feel like they understood my predicament as I was young and very incapable of having a child. It's still highly illegal in this country so they were all understandably cautious and destroyed my ultrasound pictures and records. The procedure itself hurt and lasted maybe 20 minutes. I wasn't under general anesthesia but the nurses held my hand and told me to breathe. It felt good having all these women surrounding me. Afterwards, I was able to rest for a while in a lying-in room. My relationship with the father was no good though it lasted a couple more years (covertly) after my abortion. I'm happy I had it and I have no regrets over having it done. I only wish I could have spared my family the heartache and trouble.

Hat die Illegalität Ihres Schwangerschaftsabbruchs Ihre Gefühle beeinflusst?

Yes. I carried a lot of anger and guilt over it because I didn't feel it was fair that only a few people could afford or even find a safe place to carry out their abortion. And I was one of those few.

Wie haben andere Menschen auf Ihre Abtreibung reagiert?

People were supportive/indifferent/sad. Only a few knew because it's illegal here

Phoebe

I didn't want to do it, but it is my worst fear to bring another child into the…

Daniela Moraes

É fácil defender o aborto das outras. Difícil é decidir quando a gente precisa…

Carol

I woke up in bed, and thought this is a new beginning for him and I. I could…

Carolina

Me enfrente a la injusticia de haber nacido mujer

Abree

Medical abortion at 9wks 5days

Fran

yo aborte, fue la decisión correcta

CINTIA

Yo aborté y no me arrepiento de ello.

Flor de Luna

Piloto automático, pero no me arrepiento

Xara

I had Three Abortions.

Marysia

Aborcja w domu

Rosa

Yo aborte

elusabeth

I had an abortion

Nami Tibbers

Não vi outra opção. Então tomei coragem e optei por um aborto.

Jess

This is something that was necessary for me but most definitely the hardest and…

Suzanne

I had an abortion

Camila

Yo aborté los miedos, la pena, el vacío y el amor.

María

Yo aborte

Maleja

Yo aborté.