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2018 ألمانيا

After the abortion I was just relived and I felt empowered - it was about my life. Before the abortion I was very afraid, I felt irresponsible, a little stuipid and trapped. The latter was the worst.

The abortion itself was physically very painful for me, but that didn't matter at all (giving birth is probably worse). However, the entire process with obligatory consulation was awful. Although in Germany the law requires, that the obligatory consulation has to be objective, my consultant was a strict Christian who tried to convince me and my partner to have a baby. She was manipulative and had a very strange image of women in general. Although the clinic staff was not as extreme as her, they were very disrespectful. The entire process was really bad for me and I cried a lot - not because of the abortion, but because of the people and how they dealt with me.

I generally do not plan to have kids, being a mother is not for me

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I didn't tell my family, since they are very conservative. However, all my friends at least accepted it, although some of them were a little shocked. I was very open about it, because even in Germany I feel that there is a huge stigma about it. Although I am a defender of radical reproductive justice, I felt affected by that stigma, so I told my friends only AFTER the abortion.

Isabelle

Bom, estou escrevendo aqui pois os relatos de vocês que me deram forças. Eu não…

Sam

I had a Medical Abortion - Painful Experience, Life Changing

Nthati

It was a difficult but necessary choice to have made.

andrea ka

Yo aborte

Ono Kin

Really worked, except for suspicion from customs

Agos Tina

Oxaprost / 7 semanas

T.C.P

Bom, o espaço de tempo entre descobrir que estava gravida e realizar o aborto…

Zuzanna

To była słuszna decyzja.

Vanessa Behrens

Decisión personal

lena0101

żaden powód do dumy, że wpadłam, ale że sie zdecydowałąm na aborcję, to jestem…

Anne Jellinek

I had two abortions in my life: one when I was 21 and newly married and one 8…

Han

Don’t confuse ‘what ifs’ with regret.

Amanda

E não me arrependo, não se culpe por isso
Você é dona de si.
Eu sou bem jovem

Aby

I felt it was accapted to have an abortion

V

Minęło 5 miesięcy. Nie żałuję swojej decyzji, Ale żałuję że tak musiało się…

Melina

Yo aborte con oxaprost